Message from MJ

Josie is 1.5 now and we had another baby girl, Natalie. Wish you could meet them.
Love you.

Message from MJ

Josie is here, and I miss you and nana more than ever. She’s perfect, and I’m so happy. I just wish she could meet you.

Message from MJ

Love you very much. I’m glad you and nana have each other, although I miss you both terribly. Wish you both were here to meet my baby girl; maybe she’ll come on nana’s birthday. I’ll see you again someday.

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb, I think of you everyday, miss you so much Monkey on December 13, 2019 2:12 PM

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on October 10, 2019 3:13 PM

Message from MJ

Say hi to nana for me.

A candle was lit by MJ on June 12, 2018 5:42 AM

Message from Debbie Brewer

Lisa,
I remember that Steve was created out of love. I remember the family gatherings and fun we had on Bewley Parkway. Last year on Mothers Day, I was numb, I was in shock. Mothers Day came and went because time had stopped for me and I didn't care what day it was. The shock has worn off, reality has set in. The numbness has worn off, pain and grief has set in. I remember that Steve told me you did EVERYTHING for him that you could. Brenda and Frank are two of the nicest people that I have ever met and you and Steve are blessed to have them. You brought Mike into Steve's life and he really loved and respected him. Here we are one year later and there are some things I never told you. The service that you had for Steve was perfect! I loved the place, I loved the Pastor who officiated, I loved the video! But most of all, I loved the words on his funeral card. I highlighted the words "God thought it best" and posted that card on my mirror, on my steering wheel, on my computer screen at work. Those words have helped me more than you know. I'm sorry that you got that phone call that every parent dreads to get.
From a mom to a mom, my heart aches for you!
From someone who loved Steve as her own, to someone who Steve was her own, my heart aches with you!
Thank you for the kind words that you posted to me on my birthday, I will cherish them forever!
Happy Mothers Day Lisa! Your little Stevie loves you and wants the best for you!

Message from MJ

I miss your laugh. I miss your freckles (I know you hated them, but they were so pretty). I miss how every time I saw you, you would never forget to tell me how proud of me you were. It meant the world to me, because I always looked up to you and valued your opinion. I miss dinner and the movies, even though we would go to different movies, because I didn’t wanna watch your boy movies (I’ve tried but I still can’t sit through all of Star Wars 😂). I miss your honesty. I miss always bragging about what a talented artist and welder you were. I know in my heart that God saved you and He knew best, but I’m so sad and selfishly just want you to come back. I know you’re watching over me during my grief journey and through all the big (and maybe little) moments in my life. I know you’re at peace, Stevie. I LOVE you so very much, and I miss you. Love, MJ

Message from Mom

MJ,
I know it took you a whole year to say these words to Steve. I must say, it was well worth the wait, you gave the most beautiful perfect tribute to him with your words and video. You touched so many hearts! Your memories, our pictures, our home movies show how much Steve adored you and how much you admired him. I know you will keep them close to your heart forever!
The beauty of all of this is now, we express our love for Steve publicly, but before it was expressed personally and privately, meaning Steve absolutely knew how much we both loved him! I love you Baby Girl, Love Mom!

A candle was lit by MJ on May 1, 2018 7:02 PM

A candle was lit by MJ on April 16, 2018 5:08 PM

Message from MJ

Really wish you were here.

Message from Aunt Deb

❤️u🐒

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on March 3, 2018 10:30 PM

A candle was lit by Josephine on February 27, 2018 5:51 PM

Message from Nana & Papa

God is taking yet another of our family Steve. We are not even over you and Aunt Jessie and Cindy has joined you. My heart never stops aching for all of you. The Lord's resurrection , Easter , is a month away. May he take you in his care and you shall flourish. That is what keeps me going. Love to all our Angels

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on February 10, 2018 9:53 PM

A candle was lit by MJ on February 8, 2018 10:12 PM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on February 1, 2018 5:56 AM

A candle was lit by Nana on January 28, 2018 11:14 AM

Message from Nana

Still missing my baby boy. love you

Message from Nana

Stevie Boy, what do you think of M.J.s plans. love you Steve.

A candle was lit by Nana on January 22, 2018 2:59 AM

A candle was lit by MJ on January 18, 2018 12:55 AM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on January 16, 2018 6:01 AM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on January 12, 2018 1:44 PM

Message from Debbie Brewer

Miranda,
Last year on New Year's Eve, we spent the evening with Steve; at the Anchor Bar and the Regal. I know the holidays were hard for you without Steve. I watched 6 hours of home movies and every Christmas you and Steve were next to each other on the couch. Normal day fun, you two were playing together; dancing, drawing, swinging, swimming, watching movies, etc. I know you think about the rest of your life without him; things you will have to endure without him, things you will accomplish without him. You two were equals in the Brewer family, you understood each other, protected each other, loved each other so much! Steve loved you so much ever since the day you were born; it shows in the video's and in pictures. And he died loving you the same and respecting you and being proud of you! Living without Steve is not something we will get over, it is something we will always live with. You have done a wonderful job during your grief journey. You are loved so much by your entire family! I am proud of you and I'm so sorry for your pain about Steve! I love you Manda Bear! Love Mom

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on December 25, 2017 12:00 AM

Message from Nana & Papa

Merry Christmas Steve, miss you and wish you were with us. Love Nana and Papa.

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on December 19, 2017 10:02 PM

A candle was lit by Nana on December 10, 2017 11:40 PM

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Today is 7 months since you left us and i remember it like it was yesterday. We miss you.

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on December 9, 2017 2:40 PM

A candle was lit by Deeply saddened, Aunt Deb on December 5, 2017 12:13 PM

A candle was lit by Sylvia on December 2, 2017 2:42 PM

A candle was lit by MJ on December 2, 2017 1:48 PM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on November 30, 2017 12:00 PM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on November 10, 2017 9:28 AM

A candle was lit by nana on November 10, 2017 9:27 AM

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Today is six months since you passed away. I still think of you and miss you everyday Love you

A candle was lit by 26 weeks, Miss you so much! Love Aunt Deb on November 8, 2017 3:31 PM

Message from Nana & Papa

Today you would have been 22. We all still miss you and wish you were here. Tonight we will be celebrating your life and wishing you a Happy birthday in Heaven. Love Nana and Papa.

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on October 27, 2017 1:09 PM

A candle was lit by I love you Sweet Boy! Aunt Deb on October 24, 2017 2:37 PM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on October 22, 2017 6:59 PM

A candle was lit by MJ on October 9, 2017 9:01 PM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on October 8, 2017 12:59 PM

Message from Nana

Steve, The last time you saw Aunt Jessie you gave her a kiss on the cheek. She has left us now and joined you in heaven. Rest in Peace Both of you and Steve, show her the ropes. Love Nana

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on October 2, 2017 12:21 PM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on September 24, 2017 12:03 AM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on September 16, 2017 9:35 PM

Message from Nana & Papa

Steve, We went and had ice cream with your Mom, Mike, Grandma and Frank and some of your friends today at Hojacks. Black Raspberry. We talked about you the whole time and said how much we miss you. Wished you could have been there.

A candle was lit by Nana ,Papa and Dad on September 7, 2017 11:20 PM

Message from Nana & Papa

Saw your old boss from Greenview today. He went to Turf Tech to work. He says everyone still misses you. We told him we do too. Love you and we'll never forget you.

Message from Nana

Sorry Buddy, got that wrong. Your boss from Turftech went to Greenview. any way they miss you.

Message from Nana

Steven, All I have left are your gifts, photographs and memories and It's not enough. Wish you were still here. Sadly, Nana

A candle was lit by Nana on September 3, 2017 7:47 PM

A candle was lit by MJ on September 1, 2017 11:00 PM

Message from Nana & Papa

Still thinking about you kid. Wish we could talk to you once more. Love and miss you.

A candle was lit by Nana on August 31, 2017 11:36 PM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on August 27, 2017 1:04 PM

Message from Nana

Still thinking of you and missing you. Wish you were still here. Some days I just can't comprehend your gone from our lives. Loved you as a baby and as a young man. Nana

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on August 19, 2017 10:05 AM

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on August 15, 2017 1:04 PM

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I miss the three way texts I used to have with my Monkey and my Peach.

Love you Steve and MJ

Message from MJ

Love u

A candle was lit by MJ on August 13, 2017 7:53 PM

Message from Nana

Still thinking of you, and missing you everyday.

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on August 6, 2017 5:31 PM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on August 2, 2017 3:35 PM

Message from Nana & Papa

Steve, You once told your cousin Miranda, that you were either going to end up in jail,rich or dead.
As far as I know, you didn't go to jail, although you were arrested a few times. You were rich, because you had so many talents and so many relatives and friends that truly loved you.
Unfortunatly, you accomplished the last one.because you have left this earth. However, Ultimitly, you are with the Lord.. Love you always.

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on July 29, 2017 12:21 AM

Message from Debbie Brewer

To EVERYONE that loves Steve,
You are not alone. We are all in this together. This is so final, so surreal. It's horrible and so very sad!
Keep pushing forward, for Steve, that's what he would have wanted. Do your best, be your best, make him proud!
LOVE YOU MONKEY! REALLY MISSING YOU BUD!

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on July 24, 2017 11:47 AM

Message from Nana & Papa

Steven, You taught us a great deal in the short time you were with us.We couldn't have asked for a better grandson.It's so hard learning to live without you. Love you always.

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on July 22, 2017 10:09 PM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on July 22, 2017 12:23 AM

Message from Nana

Steve, I'm so sorry for anything I didn't or couldn't accomplish while you were living with us. I hope you know how much I loved you and still do. I know Papa misses you as much as I do. Love Always, See you in heaven some day. Nana

Message from MJ

You have nothing to be sorry for. He knows how much you guys loved him. Steve and I have the best nana and papa in the world and we both know that. Love you.
-MJ and Steve

Message from Nana & Papa

We have the best Grandchildren in the world. Too bad God took one so soon.

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on July 16, 2017 10:54 PM

A candle was lit by MJ on July 13, 2017 11:49 PM

Message from Nana & Papa

Today is 2 months since you left us. Still thinking of you and missing you. Love you Steve

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on July 10, 2017 4:50 PM

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on July 4, 2017 9:31 PM

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on July 4, 2017 9:26 PM

A candle was lit by Nana and Papa on July 2, 2017 10:26 PM

Message from Nana and Papa

Happy 4th of July, I know this was your favorite holiday. The fireworks must be brilliant from there. Love you

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on June 30, 2017 8:18 AM

Message from Jobrew12roadrunner.com

Steve, There was a rabbit in the backyard this morning, and the birds are building nests in the birdhouses. At first I was ecstatic and then I got sad. Love you and miss you so much. Nana & Papa

Message from Nana and Papa

Missing you so much, Always on our mind.

A candle was lit by Nana and Papa on June 20, 2017 4:06 PM

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on June 18, 2017 9:26 AM

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Hey Bud,
Very hard morning today! Not sure if it's just another one of those days or because I'm supposed to see you today. I can't believe I will never hear "Aunt Deb" again. You melted my heart every time you said those two words. Chas took good care of your dad for Fathers Day and Miranda will always acknowledge him on your behalf as well.
I love you and miss you! See you later Bud!

A candle was lit by Debbie Brewer on June 18, 2017 9:18 AM

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Happy Fathers Day Les!
I am so sorry!
I love you!
Your little sis

Message from Nana

Steve. Nothing I do takes away the pain of losing you. I love you honey. I hope you are getting some peace. I am reminded of you everywhere in our home. Love you always. Nana

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on June 13, 2017 2:24 PM

A candle was lit by Nana and Miranda on June 13, 2017 2:24 PM

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We miss you so so much.

Message from Jobrew1@roadrunner.com

I miss you and talk about you everyday. I wish you were still here you little turkey.

A candle was lit by Nana and Papa Love and miss you everyday. on June 11, 2017 9:37 PM

A candle was lit by Nana and Papa on June 9, 2017 11:53 PM

A candle was lit by MJ on June 8, 2017 7:49 AM

A candle was lit by Sylvia on June 7, 2017 9:27 PM

A candle was lit by Debbie Brewer on June 7, 2017 10:58 AM

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Sending prayers up for my family:
Lord, please keep us healthy during this time of mourning. Strengthen our family ties. Give each of us what we need individually to find peace while we grieve.
I will praise you in this storm (Casting Crowns)
In the name of Jesus, Amen!

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on June 7, 2017 10:54 AM

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Hey Bud,
Today is four weeks and I can't wrap my head around this.
I love you so much Monkey and I miss you terribly.
Love Aunt Deb

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on June 7, 2017 9:12 AM

A candle was lit by MJ on May 30, 2017 2:52 AM

Message from Kathy Mungenast

Lisa and Family,
My heart goes out to all of you. I knew Steven for about 9 years give or take. He was one of the sweetest and politest young men I knew ! He was a huge and wonderful part of both my sons lives. They will miss him terribly and never, ever forget him !
I truly hope as time passes you can have some sort of comfort knowing how much he was loved by so many people.
Rest Peaceful Steven WE WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER !!

A candle was lit by Kathy Mungenast ( Dillon, Shane ) on May 29, 2017 6:07 AM

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on May 19, 2017 10:34 PM

A candle was lit by Earle and JoAnn Holt on May 17, 2017 6:54 PM

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We are praying that God will heal your broken hearts and give you peace during this very sad time.

Message from Wendy Wray, Hilton, NY

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not imagine the pain you must be going through.
My sincere condolences to everyone. I am truly sorry for your loss.

A candle was lit by Wendy Wray on May 17, 2017 1:54 PM

Message from Valerie Wells

This is a terrible loss. Steven was a great person. Always had a funny thing to say when I would see him in school and a smile on his face. Condolences to his family.

Expression of Sympathy

A MONET'S GARDEN TABLE BASKET was sent on May 17, 2017

We are very sorry for your tragic loss. May Steven rest peacefully in the arms of his Father above. Andy and Sharon Kostic and Sylvia Willhite

Message from K

Rest In Peace Steven, we've always missed you in our lives, but now your forever gone. You were loved so much and by so many, we wish we had that too. So sad that you have passed away. May your family and those close to you survive their broken hearts. Big hugs to you little Stevie

A candle was lit by Rest In Peace on May 16, 2017 6:11 PM

Message from Dillon mason

My hopes and prayers to the whole family!! I knew the side of Steven not a lot of people did. He was an amazing friend and loved his family dearly!! I will never forget our friendship Although rocky time to time I will never forget him! I LOVE YOU STEVEN!! I'm so sorry buddy.

A candle was lit by Dillon mason on May 16, 2017 2:28 PM

Message from MJ

Love you, Stevie.

Message from Debbie Brewer

Miranda,
On the family tree, Steve is your cousin. But I know he is much more than that to you. You two spent your childhood together, whether Steve was spending the night with us or you two were hanging out at Nana and Papa's. And over the past few years, you two have become friends, but closer because of the relation. He looks after you like a little sister. It must be bitter-sweet to have his friends reach out to you now and tell you how much Steve loves you! (Which is so nice of them, by the way).
I'm sorry Sweetheart that I can't take away your pain from this horrible tragedy that happened to Steve. I'm sorry that I don't have all the answers to your questions.
MJ, look at the tag and remember I love you! Look at the cross and remember God loves you! And always remember your relationship with Steve and how much you loved each other!
I'm so sorry for your loss! ❤️U🍑 Love Mom

Message from MJ

Love you

Message from Nana

Love you Steve.

A candle was lit by Nana on May 16, 2017 7:50 AM

A candle was lit by Great Aunt Connie on May 16, 2017 12:08 AM

Message from Connie Verity

To The Parents of Stevie: I am so sorry for your loss. My great nephew was such a darling boy. I will really miss him. May he go with God.

My sincere sympathy,

Aunt Connie

Expression of Sympathy

An A GARDEN PATH was sent on May 15, 2017

We are so deeply sorry about the passing of Steven. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. The Greenview Team

A candle was lit by Kim Davidson on May 15, 2017 12:18 PM

A candle was lit by Timothy John Verity Sr ,Gloria Maria and Timothy John Jr on May 15, 2017 11:21 AM

A candle was lit by Gloria Verity on May 15, 2017 11:19 AM

A candle was lit by David Verity on May 15, 2017 10:03 AM

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Dear Steven's family: I was both shocked and saddened by the news of Steven's fatal accident. Please know that my heart is with you as I know all to well the pain you are feeling.

To Lisa, To Les : I know all to well that no words can help ease the pain of loosing a child. People will tell you that the pain and sorrow of your loss will bet better wih time... but it doesn't. What actually happens is that you will eventually get used to feeling his loss which enables you to carry on with your life and not mourn Stevens death every day even though you will never go day without thinking of him.

To Siblings Chassity and William: Brothers are a special part of out lives. May the joyful memories you have had of Steven while growing up... be forever in your hearts.

To Aunt Josephine and Uncle Les: Steven lived with you so of course you will feel the vast void of his absence hoever you also have had the gift of seeing him daily and have many different kinds of memories which I am sure will comfot you in the days to come.

My sincere sympathy,

David Verity

Expression of Sympathy

A SENTIMENTAL THOUGHTS was ordered on May 14, 2017

A candle was lit by Caren Benedict on May 14, 2017 7:20 PM

Expression of Sympathy

A SOPHISTICATION WILLOW BASKET SPRAY was ordered on May 14, 2017

A candle was lit by Aunt Helen on May 14, 2017 3:49 PM

A candle was lit by Helen on May 14, 2017 3:24 PM

A candle was lit by Aunt Helen on May 14, 2017 3:07 PM

A candle was lit by Andy and Sharon Kostic on May 14, 2017 2:24 PM

Expression of Sympathy

A MONET'S GARDEN  BASKET was sent on May 14, 2017

My Condolences to you & your family Les. We are thinking of you on this day. May God Bless You & your Family. Lots of Love from your Indiana friends. Love Rachael, Dan & Nicholas

Message from Aunt Deb

Steve,
I miss you!

Message from Wendy Darling

Led and Lisa, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I know what a bright light he was in your life. Fond memories of him as a young boy with such energy and a beautiful smile. Prayers to your family.

Message from Nana and Papa,

Steven, When you left you took part of our hearts with you. We will miss all the dirty dishes in the sink. You left enough memories for a lifetime. We will always love and miss you. Rest in Peace

A candle was lit by Brian Morrow on May 13, 2017 11:13 PM

A candle was lit by Chris and Diane Morrow on May 13, 2017 11:07 PM

Message from Uncle Rick

I'm deeply saddened by the loss of my nephew, U are truly going to be missed and will always be in my thoughts and prayers. I love you Steven James Brewer.

A candle was lit by Janet empson carberry on May 13, 2017 10:38 PM

Message from Janet empson carberry

Sorry to hear about your loss prayers are with you and your family

A candle was lit by Rachael & Dan Olson on May 13, 2017 9:08 PM

Message from Bill and April Harrington

Dear Les and family, please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. We know there are no words that can comfort you at this sad time. We are here for you if there is anything that you need. We are praying for you and your family. Love, Bill and April Harrington.

A candle was lit by Joe DiPasquale on May 13, 2017 6:08 PM

A candle was lit by Annette Pierce on May 13, 2017 6:03 PM

Message from Larry& Carol Gaddis

Lisa & Family
There are no words you can express when a child leaves this early, its not supposed to be
that way.Thinking of you and Praying for You.
Larry & Carol Gaddis

A candle was lit by Alabama on May 13, 2017 5:20 PM

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What an absolute delight you were, from the time you arrived into this crazy mixed up world. You only made it better for those who knew and will love you always. The imagination you had from a tiny little guy was always a surprise, whether it was dressing as a Chef with your big Chef hat on, or an emperor, etc...You are still that little guy I remember as Stevie. Yet you became Steven and to many, the most beautiful young man they've ever laid their eyes on. It's so foreign to me to hear you referred to as a ''man''. I wanted to scream at the media, "no, he's just a kid!! A ''man'' could be 60 years old. "And no, he's just beginning." "He still has to grow and experience life before he's a man." "He's our little man." Yet, I think you were finding out, about us parents. We can never look at you without seeing that little boy/girl Barely, were you a man, legally yes, but in the hearts of those who have loved you your whole life, no. I don't think so anyway. I love you, and will keep you in my heart forever and a day. For your Mama, Dad, Billy, Nana and Poppa.. grandma, your Aunt Debbie and all the rest who love you so, I will keep them close in prayer. You don't have to worry anymore Steven, you are free now, any troubles are gone sweet boy..gone. So now when you're ready, you will continue your journey, before you inevitably get to Heaven. You have so much more to do. Sadly for us, it won't be here. But maybe that's what God intended, for you to be somewhere peaceful and teach others, whatever your tasks may be. You will be amazing. I'm so sorry that I didn't get those pics to you of the alligators. So strange i was just saying to myself last week, "I wonder if Stevie will still want them?" You had courage kid, that is for sure...that snake of yours..was huge! Just another confirmation of the soothing and beautiful soul you have. I'm going to upload it, I wish I could attach it in this writing here..I'll see. You're one in a million, If I

Message from Lisa brewer

My dear sweet Sylvia it took me until just now to get the courage to read these posts, I'm still waiting for him to come home, walk in the door and say "what's for supper Mom" I can't seem to find it in myself yet to accept this and believe it's real I just sent thank you cards out a month ago just another thing to avoid so please forgive my procastination IT'S JUST TOOOO MUCH to take in ----- what you wrote here Sylvia is the MOST beautiful tribute to my son I have EVER read there are absolutely NO WORDS to express the love I feel in my heart right now I will truly be FOREVER grateful to you for this exceptional rememberance of my beautiful baby boy STEVEN JAMES BREWER OUR ANGEL😇🙏✍ I LOVE YOU MY COUSIN WITH THE BIGGEST AND WARMEST HEART OF ALL .... THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU...💞

Message from Tracy Buddenhagen

To the Brewer family - I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I will never forget Steven's smile and the great conversation we had in Debbie's kitchen. I am so thankful for that time. I love you guys!

A candle was lit by Tracy Buddenhagen on May 13, 2017 4:24 PM

A candle was lit by Sylvia Willhite (Aunt Sylvia) on May 13, 2017 4:01 PM

A candle was lit by Andy and Kathy Anderson on May 13, 2017 4:00 PM

A candle was lit by Lynn Hicks on May 13, 2017 3:48 PM

A candle was lit by Bobbi Heiman on May 13, 2017 1:54 PM

A candle was lit by Chad Salmeri and Sam Nick Bush on May 13, 2017 12:12 PM

A candle was lit by Carl,Theresa Salmeri on May 13, 2017 11:33 AM

A candle was lit by Chris Terrill on May 13, 2017 11:26 AM

A candle was lit by MJ on May 13, 2017 11:05 AM

A candle was lit by Nana & Papa on May 13, 2017 10:03 AM

A candle was lit by Aunt Deb on May 13, 2017 10:03 AM

Message from Debbie Brewer

Hey Bud,
You are such a blessing! I love you like a son. You will forever be in my thoughts, in my heart, and in my prayers! Meet you in Heaven!
❤️U🐒! Aunt Deb

A candle was lit by Pete Farone on May 13, 2017 9:36 AM

Message from John and Beth Salmeri and family, Gasport, N.Y.

With our heartfelt deepest sympathy to all.
"A bird may fly away, but we can still remember its song."
We will always remember Steven. XO

Message from Diana Cicciarelli

My heart is with all of you! Words can not express my sympathy. I can not begin to imagine how difficult this is. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Love,
Chich